January 12, 2006
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Brokeback Mountain
I was going to wait till next Wednesday to digest this film but I just saw it this afternoon and I need to kind of process my way through it now and get it off my mind. Everybody already knows the sensational buzz about it and has seen the standard photos and has probably either already seen it or decided they’re too squeamish to see it or too homophobic or whatever. Whoever The Critics are, they seem to have approved and Joe Public and the Mrs. are just going to have to get over it (whether they see it or not). Hopefully, they will. Here’s what I expected from the hype – outdoor scenes of mountain grandeur (check), tastefully done sexual encounters between two very not gay Hollywood hunks (check), an Award performance by Heath Ledger (check), an engaging performance by Jake Gyllenhall (check), and a deep and enduring and in the end unfulfilled love story between two humans (check). What I got on top of that was something like this… The delicate discovery between these two men of how injured their early lives had been and the compassion that they found in each other that was unique among all their other relationships, the sense of yearning that builds between lovers of any age or sex when they are kept apart too much and too long, and in this case the absolutely undeniable reality that this particular union invited death. We all know what can happen to gay men in Wyoming, the setting of most of the film. Or pretty much anywhere for that matter. And in the end, the conclusion of Ennis Del Mar that a life alone in a tiny trailer in the middle of nowhere with the jacket of his dear friend hanging inside his closet door is better than any other. That’s the best I can do to explain it. If there was ever a time when You Had to Be There fits, it’s when you see this film. It deserves every award it gets.
Deep Thought: “Frank knew that no man had ever crossed the desert on foot and lived to tell about it. So, he decided to get back in his car and keep driving.”
Today I am grateful for: This being the first minute of the rest of my life.
Guess the Movie: “You’re the only one small enough to get in and out of that thing. All you have to do swim inside, jam a pebble in the fan, and swim out. Once you do that, this tank is going to get filthier and filthier, and the dentist will have no choice but to clean the tank himself. He’ll put us in individual baggies, then we roll out the window, down to the ground, across the street, and into the ocean. It’s foolproof!” Answer: Finding Nemo, 2003.
Winner: Eliminate_the_Impossible.
The Impeachment of George W. Bush
by Elizabeth Holtzman
Finally, it has started. People have begun to speak of impeaching President George W. Bush – not in hushed whispers but openly, in newspapers, on the Internet, in ordinary conversations and even in Congress. As a former member of Congress who sat on the House Judiciary Committee during the impeachment proceedings against President Richard Nixon, I believe they are right to do so. (Rest of story here).

Comments (15)
I’ve been avoiding Brokeback Mountain because movies about relationships generally don’t appeal to me. Unless it involves Cary Grant doing his rapid fire patter. But your hearty endorsment means I’ll probably check it out on DVD.
And Finding Nemo is the movie attached to the quote.
I want to see it…very much…and the movie is Finding Nemo
Finding Nemo – sure nuff!
great blog…you should warn readers of the spoiler! i honestly didn’t know there was any violence til i got there. have a great weekend!
No surprise there. The story is SO Annie Proulx. I wouldn’t be surprised to see “The Half-Skinned Steer” made into a movie, too.
Oh I so want to see that movie. Thanks for the review. I knew it just had to be a great movie.
I don’t know why, but when I first saw the pic from the film, I thought of the old TV series, Bonanza.
I’m so relieved you liked it. I wanted it to be done right. Sounds beautiful.
Great review, and I agree with every word. The two parts of that sentence are not redundant; I’ve been known to commend reviews where I didn’t agree with everything.
Darn. I like to be first when I know the answer (Finding Nemo). Oh well.
Back to Brokeback: one point I took from the film was that in this culture we live in, whoever gets interested romantically in a gay person is destined to get hurt. I’m thinking of the gal who flirted with Ledger’s character after his divorce, as well as the two wives in the story, and of course of the principal characters.
A couple of months ago, I attended a Sunday panel discussion involving assorted gays/lesbians/transexuals and was interested to find that the mix of stories was not wholly negative. At least two or three of the panelists had led relatively happy lives. But even for them, life has not been easy. (Not that it’s easy for any of us, but you know what I mean.)
thank you very much.
I’m looking forward to going now. I wonder if it will make it to our small town.
Thanks for this great analysis of the movie. Guess the movie : Finding Nemo.
Glad it’s so good; looking forward to seeing it.
ydurp said you’d posted a review– so had to stop by and check it out.
Sadly, I didn’t get what you got out of the movie.
damn….what a review. you’re quite a writer. i keep forgetting. kudos.